Codependent dating narcissist
The concept was originally conceived in the context of addiction.
It helped to explain “enabling” patterns used to ease relationship tension caused by drug and alcohol abuse.
The more I educated myself on human behavior and relationship mindsets, the quicker I conquered my codependency issues.
So let’s dive in and explore more about Codependency and what you can do starting now to fix these issues…
Did he call you names, put you down, tell you that no one would ever love you the way he did—and did you begin to believe everything he said?
And despite how bad he treated you, you STILL loved him, and you felt powerless because you couldn't get over him.
Eventually though, the attraction wears out and the BPD grows cold, leaves you, possibly cheatson you ‘out of the blue’ or just drops you completely and won’t return your calls or texts.
BPD’s have extreme fears of abandonment issues (as do codependents) and are awfully afraid of losing you despite your unattractive neediness.
Have you been in love with a man who, at first, was your Prince Charming and did everything right, but then quickly turned on you, perhaps cheated, or just began to ignore you?, a pattern of behavior where your self-worth and identity hinges on another’s approval.